Headache

Found a way to relieve headaches more effectively. KODOMO! aka ice pad. ^^

ITS A GIRL! 2d scan

So today I went for a check up n follow up last injection on my butts.

Every week my edd changes. Today most powerful, 16 weeks become 14. Lol.

And a lucky scan show it's a girl! Hi tech machine sia!

My friends some scan many times , some could only scan/see at 17-20 week.

Gynae dr Yvonne chan only took like a split second to affirm it's a girl. Even though she's curl up n kicking. She says: no stick. So not boy = girl!

N guess wad my precious daughter did?

During scan:

1. She tug n pull at umbilical cord but no strength! So she started "whining n kicking?". Lol! N pouted!!!

2. She clench both fists and couldn't see thumbs! So doc shook her n she actually opened her hands n waved! N one hand did a thumb up sign!!! HOW SMART!!!

Although I'm a lil shock n sad it's a girl, because I was thinking :
A) boy save some costs as I lack $ now
B) boy look like dad sure v cute.
C) if I happen to pass away next year, my hubby sure can't handle girl. If boy, easier communicate n bring up.

N bb been behaving very naughty. We were thinking alamak if girl grow up how? Lol!! So we long ago presumed it's a boy! Haha! Cos my tummy shape according to many is boy. But nevertheless, I teared upon seeing my bb move. Really. I love u all the same honey!!! As long as ur healthy n filial im contented. we love u forever no matter u boy girl les bi gay. Muacks!!!!!

24 April

I have bedrest for a few days at home. The feeling is definitely better than in Tmc. In Tmc, you press bell n no nurse come. If Not, all 3 rush to u. N upon hearing u need a bedpan, most give u a frown.

N meals are ordered from 3rd party I guess. When I ask for milk, apple juice, none ever came. A few times nurses told me because they would need to order and that may prolly only come Tmr. Zz.

And so my Days in Tmc not only experienced nurses who come in n out Duno doing wad?? Banging equipments at 2am, shifting things around at 5am kind. Can't u do these next morning?

Toilet , bed, room not cleaned like forever. Upon mum multiple requests, finally she got angry. Well, I understand a nurse job is tough, but hello, I'm paying $500 a day! Why am I not even getting a new robe or bedsheet? In fact! It's stained, dirty n smells. It was unbearable for me hence after 3 days I really wanted them changed!

I guess, I will Not go Tmc ward again if possible. I rather go the scary kkh.

I will have to bedrest until I give birth. And yes, the journey Is tough, n yes I cannot go out to play. But yes, I'm willing to do it for my bb.

Thank u dear family for being there for me.

I wanna go hm

Day 4 in Tmc.

I'm warded in a room of 4. But usually I'm alone.

So today I come across 2 weird mummies.

Mummy a:

I want to change to 1 person room. Everyone is so noisy here.
(she on tv at volume 30 7am to 1am). Zzzzzzz n has visitors all day long .

SHOO PLS. I didn't slp a night thanks to u


Mummy b:

Miss complain queen. I want longer mc. I want take this take that home. Everyone so noisy here.

(and she didn't realize her tv was equally loud n stop face time at top of ur voice thanks).

Thank god these 2 patients moving out the room.

Gynae gave me another jab as I resume bleeding suddenly ytd night. Which was another reason y I couldn't slp in peace. I keep changing pad.


So now both my asses are in pain n I want to vomit.


I can't wait to bathe n step on the ground later.

Warded

Right after I wrote the post, I experienced profuse bleeding.

After gynae checked, it appear my bb is too active and is "digging" at the originally small hole in sac. N perhaps because of my womb shape. So now have to bedrest by not even stepping down at all.


Im feeling arkward and dirty as I rush to Tmc without bathing brushing or anything! N they ain't providing bathing nor clothes to change. Gosh. So I hid myself within the curtains. Lol.. Lucky parents help bathe my body.

After my ass injection 安胎药, the the increased medications, I feel heavy head but not sleepy!! Damn. So I'm trying make myself sleepy ! Hopefully I can slp by 11pm pls.

16th April

Last week, almost same day, same time , again around 8am, I realize I'm having watery discharge again. A tiny little bit sticky, cold. Brownish discharge. Once wiped, it goes off clean. Just like menses situation. N this stops after around palm size staining on bed/ panty.

Refer to this link before on why am I going through this. According to link, no reason can explain. Pregnant women have Nany unexplainable situations ESP bleeding.

Nobody knows why u bleed. Recalled my kkh a&e incident n realized, ya. Everytime I seem to have bleeding problems, from minor (as above) to big like kkh incident, all gynaes say same things. There is nothing they can help n they can't stop the bleeding nor how it came about.

Most believed that any bleeding is a small to big sign of possible miscarriage.

N for gynaes, they would advise bedrest. Until bleeding stops. Usually for weeks.

For others, they would guess u had vigorous sex (no! No sex).

Ya who in the right mind wants to have vigorous sex when bb is in danger of falling out? (ok at least I wont).

I will not be having sex prolly until I'm safe enough or after birth.


http://www.whattoexpect.com/pregnancy/ask-heidi/blood-clot.aspx

14 weeks

Since my oscar scan on 28th march Thursday,

I started vomitting like merlion.

Unable to predict or control.

I guess this is the real Hai xi.


Some friends told me vomitting is good. It means ur baby is stable. Some told me otherwise.

And so days passed while waiting for results.

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3rd April:

This morning i suddenly woke up feeling wet. Dont get me wrong. The bed got stained with a small pool of blood. Dirty brownish blood thing. No pain

Just nice it was my appt time . So off we hurry went to see gynae.

After 2 vaginal scans and tummy scan, she conclude that there was a blood clot in the sac. And that the space will cause me to miscarrage even more easily.

So she warn me to bedrest and try to even go less toilet trips if possible.

Her conclusion for such blood clot:
I have 2 wombs. So sometimes weird things happen.
Like blueblack, this is gonna take weeks to heal. So the blood clot will slowly diffuse and come out bit by bit over the weeks.

My medications also changed from Duphaston and folic acid,

to pramilets, calcium lactate, neurograin vegi caps and duphaston.

I started having mega headaches and very big apetites and still nausea from 4th April , first day taking these pills.

Until today, I am trying to prevent myself from eating panadols.
But yesterday, the headache lasted more than 8 hours and I really couldnt take it.
Im sorry bb, i took a panadol.

However, it got worsen. So I tried normal oil on my head and massage. This went on like at least 10 times before I finally manage to fall aslp.