Most of us has unspoken unhappiness , grievances , or hurt that we never sorted it out.
Over time, the person/people living under that roof starts to stray apart, or worse. But always remember, no matter what wrong our kins did, it could be partly our fault as well.
often, we can tolerate frens n strangers, but we often fail to try to understand our own family more. For instance, ur aunt may have broken a promise when u were young. but u never did ask or bother what happened. but blamed/ cursed inside ur heart. N then over time, u 2 start to become strangers.
Because, we have taken granted everything we have most often. We assume, presume errors, n often fail to rem the good times.
It is hard to mend (unspoken) wounds, but if nobody take a step at all, everyone / u will remain unhappy for sure. 得饶人处且饶人, ESP to kins.
*of cos .. Words are cheap. Just some thoughts. =) *
